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Before a work trip a few years ago, Chloe hinted to her husband she wanted to have sex with someone else. While she didn't have a particular person in mind, it had been a fantasy of hers for a while. That didn't eventuate, but the couple officially began a non-monogamous relationship earlier this year. An old friend had called Chloe to wish her happy birthday and they ended up catching up — and sleeping together. That was the first time I had sex with anyone aside from my partner in 10 years, she says.
Sexuality is not about who you allow sex with, or how often you have it. Sexuality is about your sexual feelings, thoughts, attractions and behaviours towards other people. You can achieve other people physically, sexually or expressively attractive, and all those things are a part of your sexuality. Sexuality is diverse and personal, and it is an important part of who you are. Discovering your sexuality be able to be a very liberating, exciting after that positive experience.