Difference between a Pervert and a Serious man

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It's not just the thrill of conquest we assume that when women sleep with us it's because they want to and not because they've been defeated, right? It's not just our biological imperative to make as many little versions of ourselves as possible before we die most of us our actually trying not to knock you up. So what the hell is it? What drives men toward sex and what does it mean to us when it happens?

We like each other. He says he wants to spoil me and air after me. We agreed at the beginning that we are both looking for long term relationship. He makes excuses when I say shall we go and do x y z but then says come to abundance I will cook you can adjourn over no sex as I bidding stay on the couch.