Gentlemen Speak: 6 Things Guys Care About More Than Looks

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Okay, ladies. Let's just be open and honest with ourselves for a minute here. We are all guilty of acting at least a little desperate or insecure on social media. It's easy to deny, but it isn't so easy to fool all the people who saw the evidence and who will never let us live it down. While this is super sad, and frankly, borderline pathetic, sometimes it's just too easy to give in! All it takes is one moment of weakness and suddenly our drama is online for the whole world to see. Don't believe us?

Ahead of you roll your eyes and exhale noisily because I sound just like so as to stereotypical looks-are-the-only-thing-that-matter kind of guy, attend to me out. Attraction is physical, affecting, relational, intellectual, and maybe even devout for some. Sure, a man wants to be with someone he finds physically attractive, but I think we all do. The problem comes after we feel that someone values our looks more than our personality before intellect or any other more ample characteristic. Now I will concede so as to the first level of attraction so as to most guys recognize is physical advantage. And this makes sense. Not barely are men typically more visually encourage , but this is also the normal order of things. When I meet someone new, they make a visual impression this includes what they wear, how they carry themselves, their facial expressions before I get the chance to talk to them by length, let alone form a acquaintance with them. From struggles with pornography to the mistaken idea that men constantly need sex, I know the emphasis on the physical is a significant struggle for men.

Not everyone using online dating sites is looking for love. Scammers create act online profiles using photos of erstwhile people — even stolen pictures of real military personnel. They profess their love quickly. And they tug by your heartstrings with made-up stories a propos how they need money — designed for emergencies, hospital bills, or travel. Why all of the tricks? Here are some warning signs that an online love interest might be a act.