26 Sexual Fantasies That Are Totally Normal

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Good sex matters. A sexual fantasy is any mental image, thought, or story that turns you on. You may be dying to act it out or just like to think about it. Ed, sex educator and black queer femme activist. As long as the fantasy is consensual—freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific—it can be carried out. Your fantasy life is your fantasy life, until and unless you choose to make it into more. Sexual fantasies and acting them out are healthy as long as they're approached with respect, and involve consent, consent, consent, and, of course, consent. Below, you can find everything you need to know about those plus 19 more. Infidelity You can be perfectly happy with your partner and still find something electrically exciting about the idea of cheating on them.

But, this has always come so artlessly to me. I grew up all the rage Los Angeles, where most of the guys were Hispanic or Black. Around were a lot of different ethnicities, but those were the main ones. To make things even better, they were all so fucking attractive, I could scream. I grew up surrounded by hot, sexy men that were actually too attractive to handle. Accordingly, I grew up and turned addicted to a little slut. Can you accuse me? What would you do but you were always surrounded by alluring men when you were growing up?